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		<title>What I Learned Rewatching Gossip Girl in My 20s: A Fresh Perspective on Drama, Fashion and Life Lessons</title>
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<p>Okay Rakstars, Gossip Girl (the original) seasons 1 - 6 is on Netflix and I know that your teenage self is dying… a whiff of nostalgia is floating down through your veins. How you wanted to be like the characters, dress in haute couture and just immerse yourself in the Upper East side living with [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://therakstar.com/what-i-learned-rewatching-gossip-girl-in-my-20s">What I Learned Rewatching Gossip Girl in My 20s: A Fresh Perspective on Drama, Fashion and Life Lessons</a> appeared first on <a href="https://therakstar.com">The Rakstar</a>.</p>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Okay Rakstars, Gossip Girl (the original) seasons 1 &#8211; 6 is on Netflix and I know that your teenage self is dying… a whiff of nostalgia is floating down through your veins. How you wanted to be like the characters, dress in haute couture and just immerse yourself in the Upper East side living with the privileged upper class. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Rewatching Gossip Girl</span> <span style="font-weight: 400;">as an adult or adult-ish is like reliving all your teenage dreams &#8211; something so familiar yet completely different since well, maybe dreams don’t come true. If you are anything like me, you were obsessed with the scandalous lives of Manhattan&#8217;s elite, but your 20-something self? She sees things a little differently. From life lessons wrapped in designer clothing to the importance of personal growth, here’s what I learnt from rewatching Gossip Girl in my 20s.</span></p>    </div>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Remember when headbands were </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">the</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> accessory? Buying every single colour and design to match with any outfit. Well, we can certainly thank Blair Waldorf for that. This was her signature look which made us all want to add a little preppy accessory to our wardrobes. Rewatching the show, I realized that while fashion trends come and go (remember silly bandz &#8211; omg!), your personal style is there forever. Blair was never afraid to be who she was even when she was figuring it all out. Her dedication to her polished aesthetic, made me realize that true style isn’t about following trends, but about choosing your fashion pieces based on what makes you feel confident. Whether it’s a long beautiful golden dress (like Serena’s cotillion dress) or a gothic look (like Jenny) or a classic Chanel bag or a pair of Louboutin heels, investing in timeless pieces is always a good idea when it resonates with you. </span></p>    </div>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Frenemies became a known concept thanks to Gossip Girl. Friendships are complicated and sometimes even more than a romantic relationship. The most famous relationship throughout the 6 seasons was the bond between Blair and Serena. The on-again, off-again friendship between Blair and Serena showed how people grow, outgrow and repair their relationship. Through thick and thin &#8211; challenges arise no matter what. Blair and Serena are a reminder that even sister relationships can change but only true friends learn to forgive through the storm. Rewatching the series in my 20s, I learnt that friendships can evolve and that’s okay. </span></p>    </div>
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		<p>Where there any more relationships? Probably so. But lost count. </p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Watching all these relationships unfold as a teenager, it was easy to be drawn in towards the drama, love and the romanticized mystery. The intensity and passion of young love. But now, re-watching it all, we see the red flags!!. Serena and Nate’s cousin (we could see it coming a mile away). Gossip Girl shows us that love is not a fairytale—it&#8217;s messy, complicated and often, it&#8217;s about finding yourself before you can truly be with someone else. Enter Chuck and Blair&#8217;s relationship, growth is key and that love should lift you up, not tear you down. Rewatching Gossip Girl, I learnt what to look for and what NOT to look for in a relationship. Maybe steer away from complicated rich guys??</span></p>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We all believe that we are good people who do not spread rumours or engage in gossip but I mean Susanna in Cubicle C had the inside scoop on Amy’s bridal shower and let’s just say Amy is not a boring accountant. The real world &#8211; the rumour mill in offices, school and social life is just as active. See all the celebrity gossip websites &#8211; we love to hear the tea. Whether it’s good or bad &#8211; we live for the spills. What I learnt is that we must protect our peace &#8211; we can get caught up in what other people think which can ruin our mental health but at the end of the day &#8211; happiness should be based on your opinion of yourself and not what other people think. When you are true to yourself and don’t compare yourself to others &#8211; you can live more zen. Hate comments and other people’s opinions do not really matter so long as you are happy with yourself. Rakstars, don’t let anyone dim your light. Shine bright and be kind always. </span></p>    </div>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Rewatching Gossip Girl (okay so maybe like binge watching Gossip Girl seasons 1-6 non-stop) showed me significant character growth. In the past, we had to wait for each episode once a week and when the season ended we waited months and months for the new season. Binge watching is a whole new learning experience. Every character was on a path of finding out who they are. Blair was on a quest to figure out herself away from her relationship with Chuck. Dan had a constant battle with himself as an outsider trying to assimilate himself into the wealth culture hence his book name </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Inside</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">. I never really understood this watching it the first time around cause I never really experienced it myself. But now that I’m older and certainly hopefully wiser I can see that even in your 20s you are still figuring yourself out and you don’t know the answer right away. It’s okay. The path is never straight and it should be something that we should embrace, not fast forward. </span></p>    </div>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Gossip Girl was definitely a nostalgic trip down memory lane. Flip phones, anyone! Ah, technology! But reminiscing the simple times, the messages it shared offered a new perspective of life, love and personal growth. It was a great series.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So the next time you binge-watch Gossip Girl, remember: you’re no longer just an outsider looking in—you’re someone who’s lived a little, loved a little and learned a lot. </span></p>
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<p>When you think of reality TV, lessons about life might not be the first thing that comes to mind but rather the fights, unpredictable outcomes and a whole lot of gossip. You know you are in for a treat! Vanderpump Rules is one of those shows that you know you love but amidst the secrets [&#8230;]</p>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When you think of reality TV, lessons about life might not be the first thing that comes to mind but rather the fights, unpredictable outcomes and a whole lot of gossip. You know you are in for a treat! </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Vanderpump Rules</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is one of those shows that you know you love but amidst the secrets and lies, friendship drama and unforgettable moments, hot dishes of life lessons are served. Over the many many seasons, here are the top 5 valuable lessons that I’ve learnt from the cast that resonate beyond the screen. Who knew that watching reality TV can be so educational.</span></p>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Yes, that’s right. Be you but without the violence! One of the most memorable scenes in </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Vanderpump Rules</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is when Stassi confronts Kristen and ends up slapping her. While the slap itself became infamous, the moment is something that lies much deeper in the surface: the importance of being unapologetically true to oneself. Stassi&#8217;s actions, though extreme (</span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">we do not agree with the action taken</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">), reflected her commitment to her own values and feelings. She wasn&#8217;t afraid to stand up for herself, even though it was done in a very harsh way.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">However, the main point taken from this &#8211; hopefully no one is in the same situation as Kristen and Stassi were, but it&#8217;s crucial to embrace who you are without fear of judgment. When you are authentic to yourself, this attracts the right people and opportunities into your life. Just like Stassi, who never ever shies away from expressing herself, we too can find power in our own identities. It&#8217;s about knowing your worth, what you stand for and not letting anyone dim your light. Remember you are ambient!</span></p>    </div>
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<p><b>Lala Kent</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">: Lala has been unapologetically herself since she joined the show. Lala doesn’t hold back. She will call you out when she believes others are not themselves and are putting on a show persona. She’s so confident that she doesn’t let anyone else’s opinions make or break her.</span></p>
<p><b>James Kennedy</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">: Love him or hate him, he says what he says when he says it. With all his mistakes and his constant self-improvement, he is still being himself no matter what. </span></p></div>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There is definitely no loyalty when it comes to dating &#8211; even partners who seem the strongest &#8211; loyalty is not one of their strengths but when it comes to friendships &#8211; we can actually see loyalty. Girls trip! Get togethers and a whole lot of hang outs happen through the course of the seasons. One thing we can all agree on, is the camaraderie among the women of </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Vanderpump Rules</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is iconic when they are all happy with each other. This sense of loyalty they have to each other takes prominence. It becomes enjoyable to watch when everyone gets along &#8211; especially when the Vanderpump girls cheer each other on through thick and thin. Loyalty isn&#8217;t just a word—it&#8217;s a way of life.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Loyalty is the foundation of a strong relationship whether it’s family, friends, significant others, or colleagues. Taking care and standing with the people you care about even when times get tough helps build trust and strengthens relationships, creating a support system that can weather any storm. </span></p>    </div>
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<p><b>Scheana Shay, Ariana Madix, Lala Kent and Katie Maloney</b> <b>support each other: </b><span style="font-weight: 400;">Even though their friendships are not always rainbows and sunshine, they all offered support for Scheana when she gave birth to her daughter Summer Moon. Even Lala and Scheana, who have had disagreements in the past, put all that aside and bonded over their new roles as mothers. </span></p></div>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is the bread and butter of any reality show. Whispers float in the air only to be catched by someone who often manipulates the truth, stretching it out to a vicious gossip floating their boat or need I say yacht (Real Housewives, anyone?). </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Vanderpump Rules</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">, misunderstandings and drama are the main course of why this show is so addicting. Even the scandals which often arise from a lack of clear communication. It seems like the truth is extinct. Everything is covered with lies. Scandoval! But we are all too familiar with this example. So let’s resort to another prime example when James Kennedy was completely upset after Brock wanted to get married to Scheana during his engagement party with Lala spilling the beans. The situation became even messier with confrontation, leading to hurt feelings and tension.</span></p>    </div>
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<p><b>Brittany Confronts Jax About Faith Rumors</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">: When Brittany heard the rumors that Jax had cheated on her with Faith and then heard the recording, she directly confronted him which got her the truth. She didn’t hold back and got the truth, finally. </span></p></div>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This serves as a reminder of the importance of clear and thoughtful communication. When you&#8217;re sharing news (important one for that matter) or navigating a certain situation, how you communicate can make all the difference. It&#8217;s not just about what you say, but also about how, when and where you say it. Effective communication can prevent misunderstandings and ensure that everyone (everyone!) is on the same page. This lesson can be applied to everything from personal relationships to professional settings. This incident is a reminder on how to avoid unnecessary drama and foster a more positive calm environment.</span></p>    </div>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Life isn&#8217;t always a smooth sail and </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Vanderpump Rules </span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">proves that. With the ups and downs, scandals and cheaters, the cast faces the most unpredictable shocking discoveries. These moments are a powerful reminder that no matter how tough things get, no matter who’s side anyone is on &#8211; we have the strength to rise above our challenges when things get hard. </span></p>    </div>
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		<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Change (Not what you find in between the cushions of your couch) is a constant theme in </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Vanderpump Rules</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">. This is evident in the journeys of Ariana Madix and Katie Maloney. After parting ways with the Toms (Tom Sandoval and Tom Schwartz), these two strong women not only embraced change but also thrived in it. Woohoo! Together, they opened a sandwich shop, showing that they are better off solo. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This shows us that change can be the catalyst for growth and better opportunities but embracing change isn&#8217;t easy. It’s hard and it takes time for growth which can be worrisome but all in all &#8211; just have to let time run its course and hope for the best. Ariana and Katie&#8217;s journey reminds us that when we let go of what no longer serves us, we make room for new and better possibilities. Okay so maybe we are not opening up a sandwich shop or getting the chance to be on Dancing with the stars but change can help us in a career shift, the end of a relationship, or starting a new venture. Embracing change allows us to evolve and transform our lives in ways we never thought we could.</span></p>    </div>
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<p><span style="font-size: 1em;">So there you have it Rakstars, </span><i style="font-size: 1em;">Vanderpump Rules</i><span style="font-size: 1em;">, the reality show that’s packed with drama, also offers us lessons that can inspire and teach us in our own lives. From being unapologetically yourself to embracing change, the lessons learnt from this reality show can serve as a guide, reminding us to stay true to ourselves, value loyalty, communicate clearly, rise above challenges and welcome the changes that life inevitably brings. Vanderpump Rules is better than a textbook!</span></p>    </div>
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